Essentially Yes It Is
Over many years I fought this truth but it seems only now I
find it possible within myself to accept this as true.
Actually accepting this as true has brought to me peace and
a relief. Because one can spend years worrying, feeling scared, insecure,
anxious and making sometimes great efforts in spending time, energy and money to
make others love us, and then great disappointment noticing that it works to
some extent but not really!
Why is it True?
For the one good reason, that you are the only one that can
take yourself to me or bring yourself to love or not love me. I am not in your
heart and I can not control your heart. Even our own mind sometimes can not
(thank God) control our heart, so how can we have hope being an outside person
of controlling another person’s heart.
Besides that it is really wrong to control another! Also the
heart belongs to one’s Being and when we try to control another’s heart or stop
another’s heart we are going against a Divinity, a Divine Monad, which is not
good.
If we lose love, there will be someone else that will come
to love us.
So then, we can stop all our efforts to make others love us,
relax and be our normal self and love will come to us. Stop trying so hard for
it. And if it doesn’t come then you know where you stand and you will work out
what to do next.
End (419).
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